"Live-in relationship has become acceptable norm in modern times and it is not a crime. But if a public figure has indulged in such relationship then exposing it is not wrong"
Thoughts on the Live-in relationship
There are different thoughts on the Live-in relationship and people have different views on it such as
1) Live in relationships has nothing to do with the character it's ones own personal choice and probably nobody has the right to comment on it!
2) Some people thought that "Live-in relationship" a way simple way for free sex with no responsibility is a cheap word to use.
3) Live-in relationship can be sustained only when the parties involved have evolved true love, affection and intellectual compatibility otherwise the relationship will be a short lived one.
5) Live-in may be acceptable and sound sexy. What about children born out of such stupid relationship where either parent is not committing? Children suffer and suffer life long.
6) Its better to live happily in a live-in relationship rather than be unhappy in a boring and painful arranged marriage ....but yes, those who want children should get married if they want to have children as in a country like India even love marriage is frowned upon...a kid born out of wedlock would have a hard time here.. Live-ins are perfect for modern, busy couples who have no time for children.
7) Live-in relationship destroys the moral fabric of society. . . It takes u closer to shamelessness and kills ur conscience without u ever realizing it. . . Indeed, the time is not far when utter immorality shall become the order of the day and what's deemed obnoxious and base, will become rampant and routine practices.
Its not necessary to bend and curve laws according to demands of few elites who are not happy with their marriages....Otherwise apart from dellhi, mumbai & kolkatta chennai this has never been heard off.. We Indian will forever be slaves as our judges & judiciary are still influenced by English laws and Indian love to copy paste..and Britisher laugh at you slaves all the time the country which was enslaved by handful ppl and ppl r still ignorant and love money.
Live-in Relationship impacts in India?
A marriage is a mutual relationship of grown ups...and live in relationship is of 21-24 years old..want some escape ...98% there is a breakup in live in relationship. ..because its not backed by families nor a ceremony...let me explain it in simple words...Krishna and Radha is an example of live in relationship and Krishna and Rukmani were long lasting couples.
This is the first step to destroy religion culture & family in India, eventually these western gadder will turn our society like Europe where mom & dad will live in old home, there will be few families & those will be broken even, every child will turn in to donkey or dog. If you live in a society you have some duty like that society also take care of you. ''Love without responsibility is a great sin'' and that is Indian Culture, which means if you love someone you must give him her the right to have a family and children of you and you must give them a family which need a social status.
This is the norm of a civilized society, west may have super sonic speed but they don't have trust in their relationship, we don't want that kind of life. We need science and prosperity but not at the cost of our society & family which are priceless like air water and earth. Living in the west I learned it, what you are learning only from hearing about west? Loving country means loving culture loving elders cause culture comes from them, which means their teachings. You can build a Skyscrapers on the debris of your elders grave stone but you won't be able to show your kids who are their elders and what are their identity. It's like you won't have a name anymore, rather only a number from now on. What would be the kids surname or family name from now on?
Our Generation also had these opportunities. We also studied outside our hometowns. We were a lot more "free-n-fun" types than today's yet we knew where to draw the line. We brought name and respect to our Nation.
Today we are settled with families and kids going to schools and colleges. We guided our younger ones to their success. We take care of our aged parents and contribute to our societies. Learn the success formula and live happily.
Population is burgeoning and resources are scarce. Those who want to enjoy living with a woman (or man) but do not want kids, should be free to do so. Live in relationship is suitable for that, and good for society in the long run. But if kids are born, then it is something serious.
Character is defined by the way you treat your partner, if you don't cheat on him or her you are not characterless at all. And as long as two persons are in love and wants to live with each other there is no wrong in it. I dont find any reason to involve character in it, but if someone is living with other than his or her partner and without the consent of partner then of course someone can be termed as characterless.
What does matter for us?
I don't mind live in relationships as long as people are not behaving like beasts and using Live In Relationships as an easy way to have sex with multiple partners as per their wish, stay in Live In Relationship or Marriage what really matters is commitment, otherwise in marriages too people can do adultery but the thing is in marriage you will get punished for adultery and in Live In you will not, Live In Relationships will totally depend on Commitment, if there is no Commitment then I have no respect for it and that kinds of relationship will do damage the society!!
Our Generation also had these opportunities. We also studied outside our hometowns. We were a lot more "free-n-fun" types than today's yet we knew where to draw the line. We brought name and respect to our Nation.
Today we are settled with families and kids going to schools and colleges. We guided our younger ones to their success. We take care of our aged parents and contribute to our societies. Learn the success formula and live happily.
Population is burgeoning and resources are scarce. Those who want to enjoy living with a woman (or man) but do not want kids, should be free to do so. Live in relationship is suitable for that, and good for society in the long run. But if kids are born, then it is something serious.
Character is defined by the way you treat your partner, if you don't cheat on him or her you are not characterless at all. And as long as two persons are in love and wants to live with each other there is no wrong in it. I dont find any reason to involve character in it, but if someone is living with other than his or her partner and without the consent of partner then of course someone can be termed as characterless.
What does matter for us?
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