“An amazing thing happens when you get honest with yourself and start doing what you love, what makes you happy. Your life literally slows down. You stop wishing for the weekend. You stop merely looking forward to special events. You begin to live in each moment and you start feeling like a human being. You just ride the wave that is life, with this feeling of contentment and joy. You move fluidly, steadily, calm and grateful. A veil is lifted, and a whole new perspective is born.”
~Jes Allen
I always trust that true happiness is very easy as we think in our life. I read a lot of things and thoughts about true happiness but I like the most beautiful and suitable definition of it as Be honest with yourself and others.
If anything you are doing in life is not what you should be doing.... stop.Life is way too short to continue in the wrong direction, but the longer that you do, the less time you will have to travel in the right direction.
The above thoughts are rights, never too late to turn your life around, do what you want too, not what someone else thinks you ought to do, your the one that has to be happy with what you choose.
This is so true, when you have no one to hold you to love you as the Bible says as God loves his church, a man should love his wife, hold her comfort her, not let anyone come between them , to be one, the devil works really hard to break you apart !
The one thing that i find difficult about living in the moment is that the moment ends. When something is wonderful and enjoyable and brings you happiness I do not want it to end. That is why I find it hard to live in the moment. I have had such dark and tragic times that when the good happens i want to hold on to it and never let it go because Life is full of changing times, you need to take the Good with the bad!!
I'm sharing the different views of the happiness here. These views are not similar to person to person. As we know that every person has his own thinking area and has a different mind set to view the things which are around him.
There are many ways to bring happiness in others life too such as -
Helping people that won't help themselves and why because maybe the way they have decided to live is what makes this people happy. Even if for the slightest chance we might think they need help. In this world it is good to feel sorry for no one. We would help more if we let people go through their own ups and downs that life might throw at any given moment to let them either grow or just stay stuck in a continuously cycle. Cut the umbilical cord and let them grow up and be responsible for change. More people would learn from their own experiences and then be able to know what it is to have or enjoy life without shame. Until you work, study, for what you want to obtain anything that might make you happy. It is when all will be filled with the correct sense of pride
Happiness in every-once life - It can work for the better if believe in showing them and telling them what's in-store for them at the end. Necessary for your sake and theirs, he finally came to his senses and returned home, his father welcomed him with open arms. People grow at different paces. Maybe paths will cross again maybe not but focus on your growth not others.
"You have to love and respect yourself to have good relationships in life. Otherwise you will give up what you most want for what you don't want but believe is all you deserve."
-Doe Zantamata
Approve yourself and forget who disapprove you - This is the simple way to make you live happy. Pleasing others never end well. Usually they are never pleased, because they need to please themselves, not you. Its what you are doing finally took you long enough and its scary but you have a terrific support system patience and acceptance words to live by. When you reach a certain point that you need a change, you cant look back. You have to move on. It will be a hard journey but you will be in a safer and happier place.
Acceptance of Truth -People certainly need to be accountable for their actions and holding someone accountable for their bad behaviour is necessary, which truly is why we need to be responsible for our own actions regarding that bad behavior. Understanding that you can't fix someone else and walking away from abuse for example, is often the first step in taking responsibility for your life, not blaming them for hurting you any longer, realizing you have choices and taking responsibility and using your power to make one, rather than blaming the other guy. Accept them as they are, and stay or go. Acceptance of truth being the first step in being responsible for your choices and not blaming.
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