Be Honest And Direct With Who You Love

Be Honest And Direct With Who You Love


“An amazing thing happens when you get honest with yourself and start doing what you love, what makes you happy. Your life literally slows down. You stop wishing for the weekend. You stop merely looking forward to special events. You begin to live in each moment and you start feeling like a human being. You just ride the wave that is life, with this feeling of contentment and joy. You move fluidly, steadily, calm and grateful. A veil is lifted, and a whole new perspective is born.”
~Jes Allen

I think some people are so used to lying about anything and everything. They begin to believe the lies themselves and lose touch with what is truth and what is a lie even when it comes to unimportant things. I am not sure about why certain people do that Concealing the truth or just out and out hiding the truth about certain things. 

Especially when the truth does affect someone else`s life such as a Spouse or family member is the same thing as lying those who are dealing with someone who thinks it is O.K. to lie to them for any reason can make the decision to just realize that because the person does lie and hide things to accept it as fact and the Scriptures tell us that all Liars will have their place in Hell. 

So God frowns on Lying as a big a Sin as any Sin. Some people use the excuse that if they told the truth about everything it would just hurt someone else that is no excuse to lie. Usually when a person lies it is because they know THEY would get in trouble themselves if the truth was told.

So I guess someone who blasts you with their perceived version of honesty REALLY loves me? No. It's just plain rudeness and social ineptness.

You can be honest and direct and still be tactful when doing it. It all comes down to tone of voice and body language.if you can't be honest with yourself. 

How can you be honest with anyone?? With honesty comes trust, better if it's straight from the "horses mouth" than to hear it from someone else. The truth always comes out at the end.

There are times when you need not say anything if is going to hurt and not help, but the truth is always there and pretending you don't see it does not make a difference.  

So very true and people don't believe the truth any way this means that they lie to them self,s and do care about the truth in the first.

Pretending is only going to make things much worse. It might fool some people, an most people but your only fooling yourself if your not happy an your in a relationship that stinks!!! Been there, done that...glad it's over, an I am not living a lie any longer!!

Honesty is the best policy! One little lie leads to a web of lies.