Think and Grow Rich - Three feet from Gold

A book called "Think and Grow Rich", by Napoleon Hill and there is a story called "Three feet from Gold".

A gold miner owns a mine that is producing a good amount of gold, but after a while, the mine stops producing gold. The miner digs and digs but only find rock for his trouble. Finally, he gives up and sells his mine to a father and son team who sell almost everything they have to buy the mine. Everyone tells them they're crazy, but they are convinced there is still gold in that mine. With the last bit of money they have left, they hire a geologist to find the vein for them. He does. It turns out, the original miner was digging in the right direction. If he had dug three more feet, he would have hit the mother load of all veins. But instead, the father and son end up rich. 

Moral of the story...never give up because you could be just three feet from gold.

Don't give up on the dream that Lye's inside of you. Your greatest desire (dream) that is deep within you, is a gift that your born with. Never give up on it. Pursue it, go after it. No matter how long it takes. Just never give up.

Arise and rest not till your goal is reached. You may have many hurdles in early life but worry not just bury them.

We keep evolving our gifts & talents & if we are paying attention & not afraid of change, can keep discovering new opportunities!

"Success" is a way of looking at ones life-- a person can be a janitor, carpenter, reporter, work at the ymca, etc and still have a very filling life and be very successful. It maybe the real failure is to see the value of menial work, rewarding it justly, and appreciating all that is around us and maybe that is the problem with the world today. It greed and the greed for fame and notoriety.

Remember that the path toward success is never an easy one. You must NEVER STOP trying and NEVER QUIT dreaming! Everything you set your mind on,you can do, it is very true. 

Boost Your Happiness

Now a days, our lives are going to be very busy due to very hectic daily work schedule and we are loosing ourselves. 
Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being defined by positive or pleasant emotions and you can not buy it or sell it because it is not something ready made. It always depends on person to person because it comes from their own actions.

"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony. Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude."

Achievement of your happiness is the only moral purpose of your life, and that happiness, not pain or mindless self-indulgence, is the proof of your moral integrity, since it is the proof and the result of your loyalty to the achievement of your values.

Philosophers and religious thinkers often define happiness in terms of living a good life, or flourishing, rather than simply as an emotion. Happiness in this sense was used to translate the Greek Eudaimonia, and is still used in virtue ethics. There has been a transition over time from emphasis on the happiness of virtue to the virtue of happiness.

It has been argued that money cannot effectively "buy" much happiness unless it is used in certain ways. Beyond the point at which people have enough to comfortably feed, clothe, and house themselves, having more money - even a lot more money - makes them only a little bit happier.  Humans seem happiest when they have

1. Pleasure (tasty food, warm baths, etc.),
2. Engagement (or flow, the absorption of an enjoyed yet challenging activity),
3. Relationships (social ties have turned out to be extremely reliable indicator of happiness),
4. Meaning (a perceived quest or belonging to something bigger), and
5. Accomplishments (having realized tangible goals).

There are a number of mechanisms through which religion may make a person happier, including social contact and support that result from religious pursuits, the mental activity that comes with optimism and volunteering, learned coping strategies that enhance one's ability to deal with stress, and psychological factors such as "reason for being."

Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony.

Don't wait, Do more of what makes you happy

Do something to make you happy, give a helping hand to someone that needs, smile and it will come back to you. keep in touch with your friends, hope that we can keep healthy, be positive and hope for peace in the world.

You should always try your best to follow your dreams, set up your studio and love life. Remember, angels are everywhere to guide you and protect you. Treat your parent and love ones with love, understanding and compassion.

You came into this world naked and a clean slate and you leave this world with knowledge and hope that you made a difference. Yes! you are born to learn and venture, Adventures makes your journey beautiful, Pictures of places stay in your mind as wonders of your world, give you the excitement to go on and Meeting with people will be treasured memories of your life.

Happiness in your life always does matter for you. There are many things in your live which need to take the right decision and should need to listen your internal words to make a decision for ourselves.

Happiness is your right but it always depends on your right decision enjoy our lives and no need to waste our chance because you always know that this is your only chance to change everything, it's should be your turn to make your own path just for your happiness not for the others. Just believe in yourself.

Just keep in your mind that lots of changes coming with growth and you can create your own life, it just need the materials to build it, gather the resources and from them you can build the life.

Just start your journey and life just keeps going on, before you know it and it happens!! Another most important part of your happiness to believe in your family. Remember, your father always stay with you as your best buddy and you know it's gonna be alright!

Always stand tall and strong over your challenges. The illusion called suspicion of the likely negative outcomes should always be controlled within your minds before it takes a deep sink into your minds. It's your thought system and practice or exercise that determines the fall and folds of the consequent outcomes in life.

Power of Positivity

What you give out will always return. I believe in the POWER of POSITIVE THINKING. I also believe the more ETHICAL. It makes you feel and belief in your fellow HUMAN BEING is good for the SOUL, just be nice, CHILL out, makes LIFE all Worthwhile and let's face it what's the ALTERNATIVE miserable. I would imagine and I believe that if you see all things are beautiful, you are beautiful, and reflect beauty too.

Power of Positivity does not work always, sometimes no matter how decent a person you are, their are those who will mistreat, use and abuse you. Just try to hold your head high and not let it sour you on all people or make you jaded and mean spirited. 

We should always remember one thing that is People always take you granted that is so true and take advantage of your love and kindness to bring the things on the right places.

Unfortunately Its not true for everyone.Today you give respect, be truthful and honest with the people they will think your weak and treat you as a weak person. They forget that Positive attitude brings positive feedback and Good attracts good. 

Nice simple good behave that express good principles to have better and peaceful life. Still one has to follow such principles no matter how others react.

Always think of what you want to be by thinking also what you want others to do into you . Give and you shall receive, be honest and others will be honest to you . This is what we call Karma in the spiritual sense. What you give is what you get. Let this be your creed and things are going to turn good or bad ,depending on what we do, say or act.

This is true, but you shouldn't give to receive, if it does come back to you then it's a bonus, not an expectation. To gain respect you have to give respect as respecting someone who has been disrespectful is very unfair But to give people things that you don't receive makes you a better and stronger person.

THE WAY our life is bright and beautiful is because of someone else but more is because of the way you feel about it .... positive thinking is what we call it.

You can say that it is the key of success  and provide an identification to you in the society also. Never expect anything in return and you would never be disillusioned. You hold the other end of a relationship. Handle it so skillfully that you come out wonderfully satisfied. 

Positivity brings the happiness which is the most important factor of your life and respect is earned by your attitude and should never be taken lightly. You are only responsible for how and what come out of your mouth. That's it, the Odin falls back to the selfishness of the other.

Remember one thing in your mind that everyone has a right to their perspective. If you feel you are being disrespected, how you behave is your prerogative. Do what you feel is right. It is your call however way you deal you deal with it. 

Respect is something you earn. As a default I respect everybody. If some people show me there is nothing to respect about their nature I take distance and maintain my inner peace. Then they don't have my respect though I say to myself: hope the best for them, walk in peace.

It is always the right time

God places Angels in our path at the perfect times.

Kindness

Kindness from the heart is a rare and treasured gift to the person who has it and gives it. let us all embrace the kindness in each other and we will have peace in the world. Make an act of kindness to someone everyday can make a difference. The true fact is that Kindness never hurts. You don't realize the importance of being kind until you are surrounded by unkind people. A kind word, a nice smile goes a long and doesn't cost you a cent. 

It is very amazing thing we have without any cost. Kindness is free but not everyone understands it is always the right time. If people just take time to say one kind word every day to a person it can make a difference. It can save a life or just brighten someones day.

Fed-up
Get fed up and change maybe some magic can happen or some angels will guide you to change for the better. Time to move on and stop feeling like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. You may stumble a few times along the way, but at least you are moving on. Yes! when you are fed up look for better pastures and move on and you will be surprised your action is always right. If you are waiting around for conditions to be perfect before you stick your neck out, you will be waiting forever. So, go for the good things in life folks. Life is short.

Taking the leap
If you do not take a leap into something thats good for your future, that deep in your soul and instinct is good,then you are throwing away your chances of doing something good in your life,hoping that something else may come along one day, that may not happen, so, take that chance who nows what could happen? In fact there is no comment, because your knowledge is your power to have a courage to try believe in your self and have faith!.

Taking the leap in anything is hard to do, if it's a relationship then it takes communication, trust and belief from both people to take the leap together. Not waiting for perfect conditions, only possible conditions, that's life you take chances You grow and learn by taking chances. why not now? because if not now ultimately there's a very good chance, you "ll be saying "why didnt I? Trust me when I tell you. trying and failing is much less painful than the regret of not trying at all. Just be sure you don't leap from the frying pan in to the fire! It takes a lot of courage to make that leap. Once done the relief one feels is amazing!

Remember, Roads are tough and rough but we have to cross the other side and see what's in store for you. Keep going each step may get harder but don't stop. The view at the top is beautiful.

SMILEThe gift of a smile, oh how it can almost effortlessly turn on that inner light we all possess. Thank you for acknowledging that I may have brought this gift to you, and how wonderful it is to be accepted for who we are. Keep smiling, keep sharing the gift we all benefit from SMILE. Be happy with yourself and respect and like others. Don't buy into other peoples poor attitudes. I believe in the POWER of POSITIVE THINKING, I also believe the more ETHICAL you are the better it makes you feel, and belief in your fellow HUMAN BEING is good for the SOUL, just be nice, CHILL out, makes LIFE all Worthwhile, and let's face it what's the ALTERNATIVE miserable I would imagine.

Never lose hope

Never lose hope, just keep on moving forward and have faith in God. Personal happiness never lasts as long as the pain that follows it. Patience & prayers are the keys to hope. That is right, we always trying to be in the safe side, sometimes we just need only to be aware of our environment and trust in the Divine Protection of God.

Having an extra-marital affair

"It's marital disharmony that leads to extra-marital affairs. In arranged marriages, the spouses may not click, and look for options elsewhere. A liberal media and generally more openness with the opposite sex, such as colleagues, bring people closer emotionally and sexually."

Type of having an extra-marital affair
One night stand - This mostly happens unintentionally and may not necessarily be a sexual affair at all.  This kind of a chance encounter is probably the most survivable of all the extra-marital affairs.

Emotional outbreak affair - This generally happens when the marriage is experiencing problems and during those times one partner turns towards a friend or companion of the opposite sex for emotional help and comfort.

Emotional-Sexual Affair - This affair causes lot of heart break and problems because in such type of affair the unfaithful spouse not only gives the body but also the heart and there are slim chances of reunion.

Sexual addiction affair- Sexual Addicts use sex over and over again to numb inner pain and emptiness, much like alcoholics use alcohol. Among married people, men are sexual addicts more often than women. 

Reasons
Top reasons most frequently quoted for human infidelity and having extra marital affair include:

• In love with someone before marriage
• Falling in love with someone else
• To seek revenge.
• Variety is the spice of life
• Boredom
• No fear of public opinion or criticism
• Desire for emotional support and intimacy

Extra-marital affairs work for those who want that extra spice in their lives because sex is wilder and more exciting with a stranger but the most true fact is that Extra-marital affair is only for sex, not for companionship or mental stimulation and therefore these men and women who get into these stuffs are not just toying with their own moral values but also they are setting up and example to the younger generations to chose the same path.

Extra-marital affairs show that people have affairs with those they spend most time with: work colleagues for men and close friends for women. Most men are out at work all day - therefore likely to meet woman at work. Younger ladies are at home with kids/work part time so are more likely to meet someone closer to home.

Having an extra-marital affair works because both husbands and wives are not open to discuss about sex and pleasure either it is an arranged or love marriage. Performing sex is an art and it comes with exploring and experience.Both of them expects to get it fulfill by non verbal conversation. 

Marriage is an institution which explains to remain faithful with each other and there is nothing exciting or extraordinary pleasure in extra marital affair.It is my own opinion that both husband and wife should speak freely about sex and perform well by affection and love.

Many, who are prone to experimenting, do it guilt-free as long as they're meeting "responsibilities" in the domestic space but the fact is desire for extra-marital partner is natural one and this desire is common both for men and women. However, sexual desire for multiple partners is one feeling humans are still struggling to shrug off from our beastly nature.

They are two different traits. Further, A women as well does not like a man who is womanizer and involved in infidelity. She better like one who give her respect, dignity, and support and does not make her as prostitute. Our hostile mentality would not see any good thing. Males maybe polygamous by nature but they are not animals, they need to have a strong will power and self-control to lead a happy and contented married life.

Most of our Cultural norms are derived from Victorian English standards that forced others to a life of misery yet amongst their own cohorts practised philandering,sexual libertarian values. Only now in our Country, middle age and youth and the old have a sense of open sensuality ,up and down, higher class or lower class a sense of common desire to promote love.

Many (I should say most) married women who have extra marital affairs have them because they cannot connect with their husbands and feel emotionally distant with them. Women are as adulterous or more adulterous than men. All those men having affairs are not having them with sixteen year old virgins. 

They mostly have them with other married men. It only appears that men are more adulterous because women are better than them in hiding their affairs. its not that women have affair because of the emotional equation but the reason is quite simpler, today's women are promiscuous enough to explore the sexual desires.

Importance of Social media

Everyone know the importance of the Social media which is also become a most important part of our lives as our mobile phone. It is designed to bring  people together but it can sometimes drive them apart. 

Social media become a way to feel your freedom and provides a  way to express yourself. As we know, Social media is the collective of online communications channels dedicated to community-based input, interaction, content-sharing and collaboration. it is bringing people closer. To that extent it is as per anticipation. But coming closer to some people may necessitate separation from existing companions.
Social media the best way to gain traffic is to run a series of promotion through social media. Best website to do this is on Facebook; make sure you will involve your website to your promotions, games, challenges and etc. to make sure that you can gain a lot of traffic.
Social media is a place where people socially interact with each other, they share their thoughts and their contents. There are many social media sites available where you can make your fiends or join specific community.

Advantages of social networking

There are lots of advantages of social networking such as -

• Worldwide Connectivity

This is the best feature of social networking, no matter if you are searching for that former college roommate, your first grade teacher, or an international friend, there is no easier or faster way to make a connection than via the social network. 

These connections can help one with a variety of things such as:

• Finding romance
• Seeking a new job
• Locating assistance
• Getting and giving product and service referrals
• Receiving support from like-minded individuals
• Making or receiving advice on career or personal issues
• Commonality of Interest

Real-Time Information Sharing
Many social networking sites incorporate an instant messaging feature, which means you can exchange information in real-time via a chat. This is a great feature for teachers to use to facilitate classroom discussions.

Business advantages of effective social media use include: Free Advertising
Whether you are non-profit organization who needs to get the word out about your upcoming fundraiser or a business owner marketing a new product or service, there's no better way to get your message in front of millions of people 24/7.

1. Compelling and relevant content will grab the attention of potential customers and increase brand visibility.
2. You can respond almost instantly to industry developments and become heard in your field.
3. It can be much cheaper than traditional advertising and promotional activities social content can indirectly boost links to website content by appearing in universal search results, improving search traffic and online sales you can deliver improved customer service and respond effectively to feedback.
4. Customers can find you through new channels, generating more leads.
5. Increased loyalty and advocacy from the customers you've connected with.

Disadvantages

If anything has some advantages then it should have some disadvantages and same is with Social Media Networks also 

1. Because you are going to lost some privacy 
2. You can face online bullying problem if someone post unkind or bad words against you. 
3. Some people also use fake profile and you never know about them and share your secretes to them. 
4. This is also consider as the time wasting by spending many hours on social networking.

Although social networking helps us to connect with new people, it has also impacted how people make friends these days. Instead of meeting face-to-face, people nowadays are happy to scroll through an endless list of bite-sized snippets of personal information, or interact through comments, or even chat with multiple people simultaneously.

Social networking really comes with lot of features so it's users are increasing day by day. The above detailed information regarding advantage and disadvantages written very well. Social network played a major role in communication.

With so many modes of communication, we all feel that we are lucky but the ground reality is that we have become slaves to these modes.We are glued to one gadget or the other, round the clock. Even kids are not behind. Rather than playing outdoors, they are busy creating social network profiles. As we all are deeply engrossed in the social network, it has hampered personal bonds. With every advancing day, warmth and real connections are sinking.

According to my research on the Internet, 56% of the people on social media are addicted to Facebook. They might not be connected to loved ones in the real world. And, when it comes to mobiles, they are more important than anything else. 

 

However, to get rid from the shackles of slavery resulting from modern means, we need to wake up. A cell phone does not bring you close to people but takes you far away from the person sitting next to you! Today people prefer to text or call a person rather than going to meet them. This increases the distance between people and the device which was supposed to bring people close becomes the key factor that makes them un-social.